… the fact that Dasein’s essence is that it exists. Never meant to be sized up as a ‘rational animal’, or as the ‘fusion of body and soul’, Dasein can only be understood in the very act of its existence. Any claim to define Dasein via some representation or by way of any external properties is incapable of living up to the task. But this irreducibility of Dasein to a representation is also shared by hammers, and even by sand and rocks. We have already seen that none of these entities can be understood as if they were simply vorhanden. Readiness-to-hand does not mean “usable by people”, but rather “sheer performance of an effect”. Thus, Dasein in the second sense is the absolute equivalent of the tool, however counterintuitive this might seem. Thus, the distinctiveness of human Dasein has to be sought elsewhere”

it is the great merit of his analysis of equipment to have exploded any possible notion of present-at-hand categories. Strictly speaking, categories are an illusion.”

So what of the notion of something that one merely observes and takes in, rather than perceiving it in its performance of an effect? My girl mitda discussed this with some friends who noted that they enjoy their unique record player just as it is observed, without using it. Art, as well, is enjoyed in its perusal rather than its direct effect, if Art has any direct effect whatsoever.

When a hammer no longer functions to produce an effect, for instance it has been broken, its readiness to hand is damaged in such a way as to create the illusion of present-at-handness. In this case it is relatively easy to see that the damage to the hammer results in a relational damage to it’s perceivedness. However in the case of the record player its working or not is irrelevant to the enjoyment of it by the people involved. In this case the record player performs an effect, one of producing a certain nostalgia for the past, that was not its original intention. It “brings back” the era in which it was current and recreates, to a degree, a world that no longer exists. Thus the existintiels of the record player lie in the memory of the era in which it was created and had its primary usefulness, or ready-to-handedness.

The “artificial” mode of seeing things as present-at-hand, which is necessary for the practice of science while limiting at the same time, is a pretense of dispassionate observation that does not affect the observed. As quantum mechanics shows this pretense is untenable. Observations always affect the observed, no matter how tenuously this effect is in any given observation.

How does all this affect the M/s relationship? First, and only In a sense, tools and equipment are equivalent in certain ways to human Dasein, meaning that a slave can be utilized in a ready-to-hand manner “without thinking” about it. However there is a distinctiveness about human Dasein, in that human Dasein shares an understanding of Being, however transparent or not it has made this understanding, and as a result takes part in mitdasein, or being-there-with other Dasein in a shared world. In an M/s relationship the slave gives up ownership of that world and shares the world and being of the Master. It is not an accident that Being and Will were commutative terms for many years in the history of metaphysics. The slave’s aligning of his/her will with that of the Master accomplishes this sharing of Being and world.

“Mitsein and Mitdasein are posited as co-essential to Dasein’s essence,that is,to its property as an existent for which Being is not its ontological foundation but rather the bringing into play of its own sense of Being as well as of the sense of Being itself. Therefore, Being-with, and more precisely Being-there-with,constitutes an essential condition for Dasein’s essence.”

“This is a property of Dasein as da-sein, as Being-the there:it is,or rather,it has to be the ‘‘there’’of an opening, that is,of its own(or in each case its own) way of letting itself be or of deciding to be according to this exposition which is also its Being-in-the-world.

.(Let/decide:two faces,two possibilities or two aspects of the same exposition.)

Dasein has to be the singular ‘‘there’’ of an ownmost way of wording that is of making and/or opening onto a totality of sense. In sum, the da of sein is its exposition. Therefore,one can say Dasein is a singular, unique possibility of making/letting an ownmost sense of the world and/or the world of an ownmost sense open itself. This sense has as an essential property; its ultimate sense in its own suppression. Death,or the cessation of this da, means as well that the da does not open onto anything but its own opening. To assume this horizon, which is precisely not a horizon, to assume the finite

horos of an infinite apeiron , is exactly what is at stake in Dasein’s Being at stake.In sum,is it the making mine of that which cannot be mine,or the letting myself be disappropriated at and from the fullest point of mineness(an inverted version of the Hegelian death).”

- Nancy, Jean-Luc – The being-with of being-there

Moreover, Dasein is essentially Mitdasein. This means that Mitsein is essential to Dasein : it is a Being-with unlike the putting together of things, but an essential with , intrinsic to Dasein’s own Being..

That Dasein is also and essentially Mitdasein ensconces the relationship between Master and slave with the there of the Master’s da. Since the Master opens that world and invites the slave to be an integral part of it, joining their own da, their being, or in Nietszche’s term, their will, to that of the Master, Mitdasein provides the shared space, meaning, and equipmental totality that allows both the Master and slave to “be” in an appropriate place and manner.

A friend of mitda’s wondered aloud the other day as to whether her and her Master’s lack of overt protocol meant they were “less” an M/s couple than others with more overt protocol. While I don’t intend to imply the opposite – that those with an overt protocol are “less” M/s, it does seem to me that the use of a slave as part of the Master’s equipmental context, in other words his/her world, is a less conspicuous but no less fundamental type of enslavement than the high protocol type of M/s relationship where the enslavement has to be reiterated constantly by demonstration.

every conceivable entity is nothing less than an item of equipment. No being can be reduced to its presence-at-hand. The most useless flake of stone does not escape the system of tools; the tiniest grain of sand still is what it is, surging into existence, where it throws its weight around. No matter how negligible these entities are, they are not without their significance— even if for most humans this meaning is that of “triviality”. Beneath its indifferent surface, every entity occupies a highly determinate position in the system of significance that forms the world. In short, the analysis of tools is concered only incidentally with the human use of tools. Its real subject matter is the stance of entities themselves in the midst of reality. The bridge is not a bridge due to the fact that Dasein uses it; the reverse is the case. A tool isn’t “used”; it “is”.”

Phenomenology and the Theory of

Equipment

By Graham Harman

© 1997

demonstrating this thesis in terms of M/s the slave “ is” in the Master’s world, whether noticed or not, whether overt or not. The slave “is” in a more essential and immediate sense than any other part of the Master’s world, since it is the slave’s enslavement and corresponding enownment of the Master that makes the Master who he/she is and defines that Master’s world. The Master is a Master due to the fact that he/she uses the slave, who on his/her part simply “is” and is by virtue of his/her appropriate place in the Master’s world.

When the tool is most a tool, it recedes into a reliable background of subterranean machinery. Equipment is invisible. Furthermore, tools do not occur in isolation. Their meaning is determined by their definitive role in a referential contexture, their position in this reality. A single hammer can be magnificent against soft wood, useless against metallic surfaces, and a lethal horror to many insects. In this way, the tool is what it is only with respect to the system it inhabits; there is no such thing as ‘an’ equipment. Equipment is total, or contextural. What this tells us is that equipment, insofar as it is currently in use, is never something merely present-at-hand. Some part of the physical tool may stay in view, but its action necessarily withdraws into a totality that in principle can never become visible. The tool is the execution of a reality or effect that necessarily retreats behind the presence of any surface. But this reality is not merely negative, as though self-concealment were its most striking feature. The tool is a force that exists rather than not existing, a reality that has emerged into the world and set up shop. Of course, in the strict sense we should not speak here of tools, but rather of a single unitary world in action.”

- from Phenomenology and the Theory of

Equipment

By Graham Harman

© 1997

How does this passage relate to M/s? In a sense the slave is part of the equipmental totality of the Master’s world. As part of that sense the slave is a force that exists predominantly in self-concealment as part of the equipmental context. The slave, like the tool, is the execution of a reality that necessarily retreats.

What does this say about high vs low protocol M/s relationships? Indirectly the retiring nature of the slave as tool would tend to point to a more subtle enslavement that requires no overt protocol in order to maintain its sense of being.

Rumour has it that the President of the aforementioned local BDSM group and his slut on the board want to ban myself and my family from the group due to the fact that I criticized them on an “unofficial” online group. This after the same President is allowing someone back who committed a felony against another member on an official group <sigh>. People are unbelievable. Not that I particularly care as I’m not planning to return anytime during his presidency anyway and no board not stacked with his friends would uphold the ruling, if it happens, which I still doubt.

We went to a great private party on Saturday at a friend’s place, mitda and I played quite hard and long and I was sore afterwards, not to mention her <grin>. One girl who had a birthday around that time was decorated as a cake and we all ate icing off her. Everyone that is except emmie who ‘doesn’t know these people like that” lol,

I’m pruning my list of “friends” on Fetlife, too many people I’m not altogether fond of befriended me and to be nice I accepted their friendship at first, now that I’ve been fucked over by a few of them they can go fuck themselves with a chainsaw. Elvis fucking Christ people can piss me off.

Well it has been a while since I posted a blog. Some things have happened, such as my being elected to the board of a local BDSM group, and my subsequent resignation along with 2 of the other 5 board members due to the actions of the <sigh> president of said group. Well enough said on that score. Personally I just wanted to improve the music at the parties, not get involved in a political mess where the president of the group felt it necessary to undo all previous boards’ decisions.

Our family is doing alright these days, E has entered into the beginnings of an M/s relationship with a girl he has become very close to. Of course transitions like this are never perfectly easy or smooth but we’ll take things as they come.

A new book by Alain Badiou, entitled “ Logics of Worlds” was supposed to be released Nov. 24 and Amazon had already started taking orders for it prior to that, now they are not taking further orders and have no release date, just a button requesting that one be notified when it actually does become available. I’m a bit obsessive in my reading and in one mode don’t necessarily want to come out of that mode to read something completely different, so it’s more than a bit frustrating.

<!– @page { size: 8.5in 11in; margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } –>

There’s hope yet for us ancients. In Manchester United’s yearly endurance test Ryan Giggs, ancient for a soccer player at 34, won over all the younger guys. Not that I’m 34 anymore, I wish. But I guess I can kick a ball around for a few more years yet.

Today, aside from coding quite a bit at work, I spent a good deal of time working out our bill payments budget. Rather a boring task for an M/s Master, you might think? Shouldn’t I be having fun playing around (if only psychologically) with my two slaves? Or planning our next trip out with friends in the scene? Or, well, anything but budgeting? Especially when, as I will fully admit, I am hopeless with money.

Well the first problem is that neither of my slaves is all that good with money either. Give them a strict budget and they will follow it to the letter, give them an inch of slack and they will spend every penny E and I can earn <grin>.

So I seem to have worked out a viable plan for the next 3 months or so. The next two weeks will continue to be tight as I don’t get a cheque from work until the end of this month, but after that it should be relatively easy to live within our means and catching up on the outstanding debt load we have.

So then we can get back to the fun of being in an M/s relationship.

Well, I’ve completed and presented the first design for the current subproject I’m working on. So far so good, I received compliments on the design and a host of good ideas on how to actually implement it. I did a mock-up of the screen and that helped get everyone’s creative juices flowing.

On the downside I’m unused to being away from emmie and mitda for so much of the day. I suppose it will become more routine as I get into the project but right now it’s hard being away from home for 10 or so hours (including travel time) each day. We talk on IM (and I’m going to setup a secure IM server tonight, given what we talk about) .

We’re all going to the site of the upcoming party picnic on Saturday to assist in pre-picnic cleanup. Our host there is one of my favourite people in the scene and it will be great seeing her again. She invited us to bring kidlet but there will be chainsaws and other noise not really that conducive to an autistic kid.

With August comes a new, more interesting job, a big community bdsm party with guest speakers from all over, the beginning of a volunteer career coaching soccer, and hopefully a renewal of the joie de vivre of life at house Daedalus.  

Not that the girls have been anything but wonderful, but this extended period without work has worn on me, especially the financial aspect.  And E has been going through some burnout of his own with work, school and our social schedule.

Now E will have a few weeks off school between semesters, I have time to shake the rust off my developer boots and emmie, mitda and I some time to prepare before we start coaching soccer together.

It’s gonna be fun!

« Previous PageNext Page »