Last night we attended a munch and a party in the local scene. As it happens the munch was for one local group and the party hosted by another, although there is a large crossover in membership of the two groups and many of the people at the munch also appeared at the party. It’s very pleasant having a local scene, with people one can discuss M/s and related aspects IRL rather than just online, and even have a bit of fun scening in public. There was even some discussion among myself and a few other doms about the “daddy dom” aspects of my relationship with emmie and theirs with their respective little girls, something that is not often easy to discuss IRL as people who don’t relate can get pretty quickly squicked. (we talked about getting together once a month or so and one of the doms had the fastest and best quip – that we should get together at Chuck-E-Cheese’s 
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Both mitda and emmie had a pretty good time, I believe Luc did as well, (especially when a number of submissive women were leaning over him checking out his cologne), With the different groups in town a weekend without a munch, party, or both is becoming a rarity.
It could be argued that we are too involved in M/s and not involved enough in more vanilla activities but the reality is that most of the M/s oriented gatherings are not strip-n-beat parties but vanilla social gatherings that just happen to be with like minded individuals from whom one doesn’t have to dissemble and hide one’s peculiarities.
